Whoever does not love does not know God, because God is love.
-1 John 4:8
I apologise for this extremely short post, but I have exams to study for. Without love, you cannot know God or bring people to God, as God displays unending love. Show love to everyone. Everyone.
If I tied you up to a chair and demanded that you love me, would you? Perhaps you would say you would, but you wouldn’t mean it. The same applies for bringing people to God. Sure, I don’t think people will tie others up to chairs but the principle remains; you need to show love.